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Who is my ex following now?
You keep wondering if they moved on already. Type their @ below and see who they've actually been following since things ended, newest first. The accounts they added this week, the stories they watch, all the public stuff. It takes about ten seconds and they never know you looked.
Instagram never tells them their following list was viewed.
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- Answer in ~10 seconds
What you'll see when you type their @
Who they followed since
Their newest follows first, so you can see exactly who they added after things ended, not who they knew for years.
Whose stories they watch now
See the public stories they're on. Watch them yourself, anonymously, and your name never shows up.
What changed after the breakup
New follows and public profile changes as they happen, so you're not doom-scrolling their page at midnight.
How to see who your ex followed after the breakup
Instagram never surfaces who someone recently followed, so the new person your ex added slips right past you. That's the exact thing you're trying to find. Lurk pulls their recent follows and puts the newest first, so if they followed someone new last night, that account is right at the top instead of buried under years of old follows. Type their username above and get your answer.
Common questions
Can I see who my ex is following without them knowing?
Yes. You type their username and see their recent follows and public activity. There's no notification and your name never appears, so they can't tell you looked.
Do I have to unblock them or follow them?
No. You never follow them, request them, or log in. You just enter their public username. If they blocked you, you'd need a username you can still view.
Will this tell me if they're seeing someone new?
It shows the public clues: a sudden new follow, someone they keep watching, a name that keeps coming up. It can't read private DMs, but recent follows are often the first thing that gives it away.
Is it healthy to check my ex's Instagram?
Honestly, only you know that. A lot of people just want one clear answer so they can stop guessing and move on. This gives you that answer fast instead of stringing it out.